Stereotypes are just shorthand for common cultural perceptions (right or wrong).
Stereotypes can be helpful or harmful (imagine you are tagged by a hit-and-run driver in an intersection which, for whatever reason, has a bunch of 'gangsta thug' types on one corner and opposite from them what is obviously some kind of Christian rally...You can't find your wallet and something is gravely wrong with your leg...Which direction do you limp? Surprise, it's actually an extremely hostile and xenophobic church on one corner and a bunch of perfectly nice and helpful inner city kids wearing the cultural fashions they grew up around on the other).
For gender roleplay, when I play a guy, it depends on who the guy
is. My default fantasy RPG guy may be a barbarian or a somewhat effete and prissy seeming noble. But hey, my default fantasy RPG woman may be a barbarian or a somewhat effete and prissy seeming noble. Or a barbarian noble. Or a somewhat prissy barbarian. In science fiction settings, all bets are off...And in every case how I play the character will relate mostly to
who they are in their society.
Tileira nailed the root of it. Focusing first on who they are, and what culture they come from may be a better starting point than initially focusing on gender itself. Does that culture have gender roles? If so, what are they? Does that character transgress against those standard roles? If so, in which direction(s) and how far?
If the character comes from a culture with strongly divided gender roles, and they are conformists, they will probably exhibit those roles. If they are non-conformists they may well exhibit roles from a subculture or a neighboring culture which is poorly thought of by the dominant majority in their culture. Then again, they might come from a culture with very weakly defined gender roles (or none!) and be non-conformists because they have acquired any ideas about gender at all from some external culture!
Another thing to be aware of is that some cultures have more than two genders. I'm not talking biological sex, here, for a reason (and if we define biological sex by number and type of chromosomes in a human being, guess what...There are more than two configurations!). I'm talking about culturally recognized/assigned gender.
Historically, a LOT of cultures have recognized more than two genders. This PBS map shows the locations of some of the better documented ones:
http://www.pbs.org/independent...two-spirits/map.html
However, I am a little concerned. A thought occurred to me and I went and chased after it. It might be that this topic is brushing up a bit against an RPOL 'limit':
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Stay within our acceptable topics. There are some topics which have been determined to be off-limits for discussion in this forum. At this time, they are:
Religion.
"Adult" content not suitable to minors.
Current politics.
Real-world identity politics (primarily issues dealing with political affiliation, race, gender, class, and sexuality).
That is from the RPOL Community Chat forum, but it probably applies in a broader sense.
I think we're okay here because we're discussing roleplaying a fictitious character in a fictitious setting? And I believe that it is being handled respectfully, rather than as any kind of a political statement, debate or argument. In the same way we might be discussing Taoism or any other religious world-view in relation to a game setting. Are we cool doing that in this subforum? It primarily seems geared to helping GMs with game systems/concepts/worldbuilding.
If not, my apologies, and if a wrist-slap is required I understand.