i need help!
Welcome to the site (and possibly to RPGs in general)!
If you want to join a game, there are three ways to proceed:
1) Go to the "Wanted - Players" forum. Here you will find ads for games that people are running, usually with some kind of description of what the game is about, what rule system it uses (if any), whether or not they will accept newbies, etc.
2) Go to the "Game Proposals, Input, and Advice" forum. You won't find ads for existing games here, as those belong in WP, but you will find a lot of people tossing around ideas for games they might run to see if other people would be interested in playing. If you find something you want to try, you can chime in, and hopefully the GM will let you know if/when they set it up.
3) Click the "Browse/Search Games" link at the bottom of the main screen. If you know that you want to play a particular game system (D&D, Fate, Apocalypse World, etc), or you know that you want to play a game in a certain genre, you can search for existing games that fit within that. Any game title that comes up with a red asterisk next to it means that they are (probably) accepting new players.
If you don't have any RPG experience, don't have access to rulebooks, or something else along those lines, that's okay. There are plenty of us here that are willing (or even eager) to help new players get started. Just be open about whatever you need help with. And don't take it personally if someone isn't willing to help; sometimes it can be a lot of work from the other end, and not everyone has the time and inclination to do that.
Lastly, there are a lot of abbreviations that get thrown around here. Many of them are game-specific, but one that you're going to see a lot as you try to get started with games is RTJ. That stands for "Request to Join." If you want to join a game and you see it has a thread titled RTJ, make sure to read that first - it will probably have some kind of instructions about what information the person running the game will want from you.