Re: Hows it going?
Welcome! The holidays have us all behind schedule, but we're glad to have you.
We've got a little something for everyone here, so I know you'll eventually find something you like. I've been in many of the games you mentioned, romance, action and lots of D&D. I do 3rd edition, but I've seen everything from Basic to 5th edition.
If you haven't read the FAQ section, go ahead and do that first, as it'll answer many of your questions.
Then, feel free to check out the forums.
The Wanted Players forum shows which games are currently "Hiring" at the moment, so you can click on them to be able to ask the GMs what they need from a new player.
The Wanted GMs forum is a place for you to make a post, if you wish to, about what kind of games you'd like to play, and hopefully a GM in need of players would see your ad (many check it regularly)
Please ask any other questions you'd like. We love helping new folks.