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Passing of a friend.

Posted by Veritas11
Veritas11
member, 21 posts
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 15:05
  • msg #1

Passing of a friend

Just a few weeks ago my good friend passed away. He had been in a car accident several months ago, and gotten blood poisoning afterwards . He was never quite healthy again after that. He kept getting sick, and the doctors couldn't figure out why. He had so many tests and hospital visits, it was something to do with his blood? Then he passed away in the hospital about a month ago.

I remember how much he loved rpol. I'd call him while he was in the hospital and when we also talked outside of that and he'd often speak so fondly of this site. He'd tell me how the moderators were the kindest most helpful people (if we could get an applause here for them), how he was so excited about this game or that game he was running or playing in, how he met this wonderful co-GM or awesome player. Heck, I remember once he was reading posts to me from a player and saying how he wished he could write like that.

The two big games were a walking dead based one that apparently drifted pretty far from TWD, and a sci-fi game where he's designed a universe and lore based on it. He'd ask me all these questions about ideas and thoughts. Oh and he loved this pirate game he was in, used to tell me he would purposefully not post in It though until he made sure the game He was gming for the GM had an even post count to keep it fair. He really did like rpol.net. he would stress about not posting, and always feel guilty about being absent, especially if he didn't say he'd be absent.

This was all before I even joined. But after he died I got to thinking, and I decided to check out the site my friend loved. I'm not sure now if I enjoy being on here for memories of him, or just for the actual site. It's a blast. I think maybe it's both. Thanks guys for making two people's lives a little better, a little more fun, and generally happier :)
engine
member, 175 posts
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 15:14
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Passing of a friend

My condolences.
ShadoPrism
member, 1010 posts
OCGD-Obsessive-Compulsive
Gamer-Disorder
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 15:15
  • msg #3

Passing of a friend

Do you recall his site name ? Would help those of us who may have known him here know why he just vanished.
Veritas11
member, 22 posts
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 15:19
  • msg #4

Passing of a friend

Yea I do actually. I think its JacobVVV? Actually based my site name after him since I figured it fitting giving the only reason I joined was because of him. I don't know how to find the games he GMed though. :/
bigbadron
moderator, 15157 posts
He's big, he's bad,
but mostly he's Ron.
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 15:23

Passing of a friend

I'm sorry to tell you this, but we have no record of any user called JacobVVV, or anything close to that.
Merevel
member, 1079 posts
Gaming :-)
Very unlucky
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 15:29
  • msg #6

Passing of a friend

In reply to bigbadron (msg # 5):

Which is weird because that name sounds so familiar.
Veritas11
member, 23 posts
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 15:33
  • msg #7

Passing of a friend

Oh...I must have gotten it wrong...let me try to find if I can get the right name. Maybe I have it somewhere in an old txt or screenshot.
swordchucks
member, 1284 posts
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 15:34
  • msg #8

Passing of a friend

There was a Jacob_VVV.  I still have an rmail from him in my... err... rmail.

He ran a Savage Worlds XCom game that I was involved with for a time.

I hate to hear he passed, though.
Merevel
member, 1080 posts
Gaming :-)
Very unlucky
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 15:35
  • msg #9

Passing of a friend

That is the one I am thinking of Swordchucks. He passed? I did not know him, but his posts in the forums made him sound like a decent person.
Eur512
member, 755 posts
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 16:21
  • msg #10

Re: Passing of a friend

swordchucks:
There was a Jacob_VVV.


He has a number of games up.  I wonder if it is possible for a moderator to check into those games and inform the players as to why their gm is gone.

It would seem, with all the "mysterious disappears" and the discomfort that puts on players, this might be a considerate thing to do.
aguy777
member, 141 posts
Join Date:
Fri, 29 Nov, 2013
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 16:35
  • msg #11

Re: Passing of a friend

I remember he changed his screen name to Jacob Bowden at some point, assuming I spelled it right. I played with him, too. It's a shame to hear of his passing. My condolences.
locojedi
member, 109 posts
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 17:48
  • msg #12

Re: Passing of a friend

Oh no. That's very sad news. I'm very sorry to hear that. Yes, recently there was some discussion on games between he and I. What a loss for our community here.

In a situation like this, what happens to his games?
bigbadron
moderator, 15158 posts
He's big, he's bad,
but mostly he's Ron.
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 17:58

Re: Passing of a friend

If he has a co-GM they can continue to run the game.  If not, it eventually goes inactive, and will, in the end, be flagged for deletion.
Utsukushi
member, 1384 posts
I should really stay out
of this, I know...but...
Thu 25 Aug 2016
at 18:29
  • msg #14

Re: Passing of a friend

quote:
Thanks guys for making two people's lives a little better, a little more fun, and generally happier :)

It is, pretty literally, what we're here for.

I'm sorry he's gone.  I don't think I knew him at all, but... well.  Glad you found us, though.  RPoL is, indeed, freaking awesome.
cptcthulhu
member, 189 posts
Nuke em till they glow
Shoot them in the dark.
Mon 29 Aug 2016
at 05:25
  • msg #15

Re: Passing of a friend

I'm actually in one of his games. So sad to hear of his passing.
Jhaelan
member, 144 posts
Prefers roles to rolls
Based in UTC+1
Tue 30 Aug 2016
at 12:06
  • msg #16

Re: Passing of a friend

Sorry to hear of his passing; he was a player in a couple of my campaigns :(
Sittingbull
member, 243 posts
Don't you give me a link.
I use 24K dial-up.
Fri 9 Sep 2016
at 02:44
  • msg #17

Re: Passing of a friend

Condolences.
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